Thanksgiving, “Woolness,” and Moving Country, Three Months In

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Today marks three months since I joined Mr. N in the UK. Given that neither of us had ever set eyes on Lancaster before the move, I am so thankful we landed in a place that we like as much as we do.  We’re surrounded by so much natural beauty here, and I’ve loved exploring this new to me part of the world  — and I’ve really enjoyed sharing those adventures so far with all of you.! And we’ve both been struck by the friendliness of the people we’ve encountered here.  All things considered, and especially given some of the bumps along the way to getting here, I think we’re both settling in well to our new home.

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But I would be lying if I said moving country hasn’t been hard. Or that the hardness of it hasn’t come as a bit of a surprise to me. I think because I’d moved so much in the US, and had spent big chunks of time in the UK over the last six years, I sort of imagined moving here wouldn’t feel like such a change. But of course, it has been a massive change, and different than any move I’ve done in the US. I’m much further from family and friends than I’ve been in the past.  And all my previous moves were for school or work — there was always some sort of community of people that I was joining (often people who had also just moved).  There’s been the small adjustments that have been pretty easy to make — like the fact that the washing machine lives in the kitchen, or that there’s no dryer or dishwasher on in our house. And then there’s been harder stuff — even though the wonders of technology make it so much easier, I still really feel the distance, especially from my family and closest friends. Finishing a dissertation in any circumstances can be a fairly lonely proposition, and that’s been compounded by being in a new place, where most of my days are spent working at home on my own.

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Knitting, though, has been a huge help — so today, in the spirit of this Wovember‘s theme of “Woolness,” described as the meeting of wellness and wool, and since it’s Thanksgiving in the US, my most favorite holiday, I thought I’d talk a bit about how thankful I am for knitting and wool, and the connections they’ve allowed me to sustain and to make, during a time of lots of change.

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I’m normally a bit shy and on the introverted side — not that I don’t like people, but the idea of, for instance, approaching a group of strangers on my own, gets me incredibly nervous. In fact, I can think very few things other than knitting that would make me even consider it!  Just a couple weeks after we moved though, I found out that Kate, the owner of lovely Northern Yarn, hosted a weekly knitting meetup at a community center and pub that was, conveniently, just a five minute walk from the new house.  I was a bit nervous to go on my own — I had a lovely craft night back in Baltimore, but that was all made up of friends that liked to craft, rather than people who met through craft, if you know hat I mean — but knowing that it’d be a group full of people who also loved knitting made it so much easier. And I’m so glad I did — I’ve met really awesome people at the weekly knit night — it’s such a lot of fun.  I feel very lucky to have such a nice local knitting community.

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I’ve talked before about the wonderful AC Knitwear group I help moderate over on Ravelry .. many of the knitters in the group live in the UK, and they were so kind and supportive as I prepared for the move and waited on my delayed visa. And one of the pleasures of moving  has been getting to meet some of these kniternet friends in person — and knowing that there’s more meet ups to come!  I’m traveling to Edinburgh in a few weeks for a little mini yarn crawl with a few women from my group and am excited to meet many more at EYF in March!  I’ve been so thankful my online knitting community!

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And of course, I’m thankful for all of you I’ve gotten to “meet” here — and for those of you have kept reading, even as my blogging schedule has been a bit more sporadic as I’ve been settling in. Whether you occasionally pop by to read a post or regularly comment, thank you for spending a bit of time here.

So this autumn, I’ve been reminded again and again of the lovely connections wool can help us make, and I’m so grateful for that. But I am also thankful for knitting as self care — whether it’s the bit I do in the mornings before I start my work day, a small row squeezed in as a break from writing, or unwinding from a long day, I’m thankful for the peace and calm that little stitches made from wool can bring — and that I have a partner who knows just when I can do with a few extra rows and makes sure that happens.

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If you’re celebrating Thanksgiving, I hope you have a great day, filled with family, friends, and yummy food.  We’re having our own mini Thanksgiving with a visiting friend (it’ll just be three of us — I think what I’m cooking could feed about 12, ha!) And, whether you’re off work for the holiday or it’s just another Thursday, I hope you get to enjoy a little bit of knitting today.

Pictures are from last Sunday’s walk around Lancaster and the canal.  

xo K

 

 

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12 thoughts on “Thanksgiving, “Woolness,” and Moving Country, Three Months In

  1. Thanksgiving always seems a good time to think of my brothers, who both live abroad (from the UK). The one who is naturalised American now will celebrate in good style with his ‘married into’ family! I don’t miss them being closer generally when everyday life keeps me busy, but just occasionally it is hard not having them available to visit more often. Nothing beats the actual physical get-togethers. I hope you have a lovely Thanksgiving dinner.

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  2. This is a lovely post Katherine – I had to laugh at the washing machine in the kitchen. Yep, have one of those too and find it strange. I guess I’m lucky to have a dryer though – where is it? In the outside shed of course! I do like hanging wash outside on the line in the summer though, something I never could do in Toronto. Happy Thanksgiving.

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  3. Thirding the washing machine in the kitchen bemusement! I don’t have a dryer or dishwasher here either, so I know how that feels too. Happy Thanksgiving, looking forward to seeing you in Edinburgh.

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  4. I just stumbled across your lovely space and it’s made me a little ‘homesick’. I spent 2 1/2 wonderful years living in Greaves Road in Lancaster when I completed my BA at the University of Salford in Manchester. Yes, I was crazy enough to commute from Lancaster to Manchester (Lancaster was a much nicer place to live). I lived with my best friend and some other friends and remember it fondly.

    I know how hard it can be moving, not just within a country but also abroad. My husband and I moved from London all the way to Sydney Australia in August 2016 with our two boys. To say it was hard (and still can be) is an understatement. The hardest thing has been missing friends and my family (who are in Germany). I’d like to say it gets easier, and it definitely does. But there are also days when it’s really hard. This being our second Christmas down under, I am finding it all a bit harder, Europe does the run up so well.

    I love seeing your pics of Lancaster and the surroundings, there are so many wonderful places to explore, especially in the Lake District: Ullswater, Yewfield (a friend’s bed and breakfast) spring to mind…and of course not to forget Morecambe. I look forward to seeing more of your pictures.

    Anna at http://www.annatestadoro.com

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    1. Thank you so much for “stopping by” and commenting — so happy to hear from someone who used to live here in Lancaster! It’s such a gorgeous part of the country, isn’t it? And so nice of you to share a bit about your move — London to Sydney, that’s BIG! Glad that it’s mostly gotten easier, though I can imagine Christmas is difficult with it being so different. I’m excited and lucky to be going home to see my family for Christmas — very much looking forward to my first trip back! Your blog is so lovely and I look forward to reading more of it 😀

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  5. What a lovely post! It’s so exciting that you’ve found a group of knitters you like and can look forward to spending time with. That’s HUGE. I was surprised by how long it took to adjust to my last move as well, and I didn’t even move to a new country. I met knitters and spinners right off the bat, though, and that made all the difference. Happy Thanksgiving to you, Katherine!!

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  6. What a lovely post. I’m glad you’re settling in well. Hosting Thanksgiving for friends is a great way to keep the tradition, though it’s still perfectly normal to feel homesick on the day. Hope you enjoyed it; I loved seeing the Instagram stories.

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